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Pilchards, plants & pockets – this week's MSE Forum highlights

James Hatts
James Hatts
Forum Executive
18 July 2025

What's been going on in the MSE Forum this past week? Let's explore some of the topics that have generated debate and MoneySaving insight.

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A few of this week's top threads

These are some of the Forum discussions that caught our eye this week:

Money Moral Dilemma

Every week, the Money Tips email features a real-life Money Moral Dilemma (MMD for short). They're intended to encourage debate and, as such, they're usually among the most discussed threads each week.

How do I tell my neighbours I can't afford to pay towards replacing our fence?

My back garden is separated from my neighbours by a fence that blew over in a storm a few months back. It's a shared fence, but my neighbours paid for it before I bought my house five years ago. They've asked me to pay for half of the replacement fence, but I can't afford to - even food is a bit of a luxury for me right now. I told them this, and they offered to pay for it and said I can owe them, but that would be yet another debt to add to my existing debts. Is there a way to say that I simply can't afford to pay for it without causing friction?

See what our MSE Forumites had to say and add your own thoughts on the Money Moral Dilemma discussion thread. Do please stick to the MSE Forum rules: keep it kind and keep it clean. Remember, there's a real person behind every dilemma.

Photo of the week

Members of our crafting community love to turn materials from their existing stash into new and exciting things. CraftyRach recently completed this stunning box card for their future son-in-law’s 30th birthday.

30th birthday card

Please note: We love seeing your photos in the MSE Forum, but if you're uploading one, make sure it doesn't include any personally-identifiable information such as your face or address.

Latest comping wins

Over on Competitions Time, Sarahd123 shared a snap of their Scarborough hotel room as they returned from a "fabulous weekend" valued at £650 they'd won in a recent comp.

Scarborough hotel room

Meanwhile Stacey2kids has had a run of excellent luck, stacking up four great travel-related prizes.

Your two cents

This week we've published a new guide about properties that mortgage lenders are likely to look at less favourably. MSE_Kit would be pleased to hear your feedback in the dedicated thread.

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